QuandaryMat: My Supervisee Just Won't Accept Feedback
Dear Hunter,
I have an employee who seems to struggle with perfectionism. She argues and pushes back whenever I make any corrections to her work. When I give her constructive feedback, I include an example, and she immediately asks for another example. No matter how many examples I give her, nothing seems to sink in and she gets defensive.
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Breaks Make us Better: The Indisputable Value of Taking Breaks and a Few Things I Learned on my Big Break
I am just back at work from the longest break of my career. Four weeks. Longer even than breaks from work when I was all the way back in high school. I have always worked.
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Quandary-Mat: Improving Team Culture when Wider Culture is Same Ole Top-down
Dear Hunter, I supervise a team of 12 people. I am working with the group to support and trust each other, listen to each other. I want a team where I don’t have to answer every question for people, don’t micromanage, and where nobody is afraid of getting in trouble for not being perfect.
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Managing Up: 12-ish Questions to Ask Your Boss to Help Her, and Help Her Help You
It’s the complex dance of people who lead from the middle of the organization: Getting what we need and want from our boss, while serving the needs and wants of our staff team
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Quandary Mat: My Work BFF Threw Me Under the Bus
Dear Hunter, About a year ago, I encouraged a friend of mine to apply for an open manager position where I work. She was hired. We were both happy about it, and it was fun to have her here.
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Maintaining Expectations When Things Get Tense
“I’m not going to be able to finish this program report by the deadline. I’m in all these other meetings, and our two new staff start on Monday.”
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